goddess lily noire

San francisco bay area dominatrix

Life doesn’t have to be so heavy, serious, and dull. Take off your mask with Me, surrender, and join Me as we explore the more perverted and playful side of life. My kink is your total submission and sacrifice.

You desire to be seen as your whole, depraved self. You want to worship at the altar of a powerful woman who can put you in your rightful place. You crave to be of service to something bigger than yourself.

I delight in creating a safe space for play, exploration, and transformation through complete power exchange. I take great pleasure in your humiliation, desperation, and agony. Step into My world. Be My plaything. My toy.

Sexy, confident, sadistic, and delightfully deviant. I am your ideal Dominatrix.

About me

I have always been dominant. However, it has taken Me some time to return to Myself. Like many young women I was conditioned to be perfect in the eyes of men and a patriarchal society. Perfect to them is beautiful, thin, nonconfrontational, nice. I played along, became the successful woman they wanted Me to be, but their version of success always tasted bitter and was frankly, boring. Over the past few years, I am on a new journey. I am shirking their prescriptions of what it means to be a woman. I am indulging in pleasure and I am doing whatever the fuck I want.

I am asking: "What if we build a life based on our desires, void of the prescribed morality of the masses?"

Serving Me is therefore two-fold. A submissive counterpart allows the dominant to blossom. Your submission helps Me build Myself in My ideal image and that is a beautiful gift. Submission to Me is also the beginning of your journey to your true self through pleasure, pain, and sacrifice. Pour yourself into My cup and let Me build you anew. Serving Me is a privilege.

While being a pervert is a big part of My life, I enjoy many things beyond kink, including dance, film, music, urban design, and books. I find the sacred in nature and value any time I can be outside and away from screens. If you are keen to experience the other sides of Me, inquire about social experiences beyond the dungeon. I love museums, live music, fine dining, and dirty martinis. I'm curious and enjoy learning what makes each of us unique, but simultaneously the same as we navigate the human experience.

sessions

You will do as your told—and you will like it.

Described as "a sadistic little minx", I am not what you expect. Below is a list of ways I like to play, but it is not exhaustive. I am always interested in trying new things and exploring new kinks and fetishes. Contact Me if your curiosities are not listed here.

Some of My favorite things…

  • tease and denial

  • impact and corporal punishment

  • CBT (cock and ball torture)

  • NT (nipple torture)

  • bondage

  • sensation play/sensory deprivation

  • foot worship

  • pet play

  • feminization/sissification

  • golden showers

  • pegging and strap-on play

  • role play

My limits....

  • full toilet or brown showers

  • ABDL

  • any form of bottoming

I am strictly a BDSM provider and do not engage in “full service” arrangements. You should not expect full or partial nudity. I show up as I please.

  • For BDSM sessions, My tribute rate is $400 an hour. This does not include dungeon rental fees, which are also on you and range from $60 to $75 an hour. These sessions are held at a dungeon in Oakland or San Francisco. I only offer outcall sessions to established clients.

    All sessions must be booked 36 hours in advance and new clients must complete My screening process.

    You can book social time with Me if you would like to get acquainted before we session. I also offer combined sessions of social time + play. My tribute rate is $200 an hour for social time.

    For all session types I require a 50% deposit to confirm our time together. I accept deposits via cash, Cash App, Throne, or crypto.

    I thrive on the physical intimacy of this craft and value the container we can create in session where there are no screens and just us. For that reason, I only offer virtual sessions in unique circumstances and for establishes submissives. You can come to the Bay Area or Fly Me To You.

  • I have a two-step screening process for anyone new to Me: fill out My intake form, and complete a 15-minute introductory video call with Me.

    I will ask for references of other BDSM providers that you have seen recently. If you are a novice, welcome, and you will be asked to share ID (all info but your name can be obscured) or your LinkedIn profile.

    This process is to ensure that we are aligned in what we are seeking out of a session. It also ensures My safety and that you do not waste My time.

  • Clients are expected to show up on time for sessions—not early, not late. Be as hygienic as our session requires, be that a shower, an enema, etc. If you do not come prepared I will have you take care of this during session time.

    Tributes are expected to be complete, in cash, and presented at the start of the session.

    I welcome you to bring your own gear. If you desire something special that neither of us has then I will expect you to supply and/or pay for it. This applies to outfit, equipment, and/or toy requests.

    You can expect Me to respect your hard limits and safe words.